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Frequently Asked Questions

Do I Need ID?

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​YES! If you are not a current registered member with us, then you will not be allowed entry - under any circumstances without valid ID (must be in date).

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This applies to all visitors. ​

 

We will ONLY accept the following:

 

  1. Passport

  2. Driving licence

  3. Proof of Age scheme cards with a PASS logo, like a Citizen Card

  4. NHS or uniformed services card (Police, Fire, NHS)

  5. British Military Card 

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Do not embarrass yourself or our staff by arguing this, you are absolutely not allowed to enter The Lifestyle Lounge without ID at any time

 

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What is the Age for Entry?

 

You must be over 21 to visit the club or to become a member​

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*Anyone between the ages of 18 & 21 is permitted at the sole discretion of the owner

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SAFETY

 

What is your safety policy? ​

 

We do not mess around when it comes to the safety of our staff, members and guests. We abide by a strict code of conduct, which enhances the safety of all

 

We will not tolerate anything less than the expectations as set out in this policy. Failure to adhere to this policy - will not only result in you being barred from our place, but others too - to protect our wider community as a whole

 

All guests are requested to acknoweldge this policy upon entry

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Who is Allowed to Visit?​

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Anyone! We are open to all

 

We are proud of our diverse and alternative lifestyle services for like minded-adults

 

However, we have all types of people through our doors and we will not tolerate any type of unwanted behaviours towards our guests

 

If you aren't open minded, we suggest you refrain from visiting

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Are you a Dress Down Club?

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NO! We don't enforce you to undress or get out of social clothes at any point. You are welcome to remain fully dressed for comfort. However, if you go into the layrooms, you must be 'dressed down' which means shorts/T-shirt and/or towel

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What is Expected of Me?

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Many first-timers have the misconception that they are expected to play and/or get involved. This isn't the case. In fact, we encourage people to get to know the club and guests first to see if it is right for them. You will never be pressured

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Do you Have Parking? 

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There is ample free parking directly opposite the club in the supermarket, also some roadside and residential behind the car park opposite 

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How do I Get There?

 

Please see our 'How to Find Us' page for more information â€‹

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Where Can I Stay?

 

Please see our 'Local Accommodation' page for more information 

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Are Single People Allowed?​

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Yes! Of course.

 

We have many single people who come in to meet others​

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Are Groups Allowed?

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On general swing nights; no. Groups are permitted in, on certain events. See each event for details

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What is the Dress Code?

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What is the dress code?​Dress smart as we don't allow trackies, caps or trainers, we do accept workclothes as we understand people visit during their work breaks or on travel

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​General scruffy clothes won't get you in

 

​Ladies can wear whatever they feel comfortable in and lingerie etc is alllowed

 

​You are allowed to be fully clothed in all of the social areas. However, you are not permitted in the playrooms fully dressed. ​You are welcome to dress down at your leisure and are permitted to bring your own robes, towels or shorts

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Is Nudity Allowed? 

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Nudity is not allowed on or in any part of the first floor designated social area/s. Nudity is only allowed in the playrooms with consenting adults n private play areas

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Will I get Sex? 

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Unfortunately, we get asked this all the time, so it's important we manage expectations.

 

The short answer is no!

 

You do not come to the Club expecting sex. You come to enjoy a like-minded environment with others and play is a bonus. Do not offend our staff, members or guests by expectibg sex when you visit - you will be asked to leave. We strongly reccomend you read our Expected Behaviours page before visiting

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Do you Provide Towels?​

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​We don't provide towels on entry - although you are welcome to bring your own or can hire for £5

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Do you Provide Condoms?

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Yes! We supply condoms free of charge in all playrooms

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Do you Allow Phones on Premises?​

 

 

Absolutely not!*

 

You are requested to give your phone to the front-of-house staff with your valuables​

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What if I need to make a call or check my phone?​

 

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We have a designated area in reception where you can make or recieve a call/text etc.,​

 

*Please note, any guest or member found using a phone on-site outside of the designated area will be barred indefinitely

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​Do you Check Bags?

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Yes! We reserve the right to check bags at any time.

 

Any items found which breach our club rules will be removed and you will be requested to leave instantly with an indefinite ban.

 

*If any illegal items or substances are found, the authorities will be called immediately. ​

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Where do I Store my Valuables ​

 

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What do I do with my valuables?

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​Your valuables, including money, phones, keys etc are taken at reception and stored in our valuables lockers behind the main desk. This is monitored by CCTV at all times.

 

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​Where do I get Changed/Store my Clothes?​

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You are provided with a numbered locker & key. You keep the key with you until you leave.​ Please note - we are an intimate venue and have a mixed changing room

 

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How Much is Locker Hire?

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Locker hire is free. However, we do charge £10 replacement fee on exit if you lose your key.​

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​Can you Wear Shoes or Trainers?

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​In the social areas - yes!

 

However all footwear needs to be removed in the playrooms, male or female.​

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Can you Wear Slippers?

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Yes! Slippers or sandals are allowed (socks aren't)

 

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Do you have a licensed bar?​ No. We have a BYOB (Bring your own Beer) policy.

 

You are permitted to bring alcohol in - in a reasonable amount. ​You give it to the bar staff on entry and they will serve you during your visit. ​

 

Can I bring my own soft drinks?

 

​No. You must purchase soft drinks from us. ​If you become intoxicated whilst in premises,we reserve the right

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​DATA / PRIVACY POLICY

 

 

What happens to my data?

 

​If you are a member, then your details are secured on a private VPM system saved to the cloud* details are on a secure and encrypted platform. ​If you are a guest, then your ID will be in our secure lockers behind the reception desk during your visit. Your details are taken for reference and for safety to all guests whilst you are on premises.

 

You will be required by our policy to show ID upon every visit if you are a non-member, regardless of how many times you come. ​

 

We hold a full ICO licence and are GDPR compliant.

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​​Do you Have CCTV?​​

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Yes! Due to the nature of our club, CCTV is essential to keeping our guests, members and staff safe

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Where is it? ​

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The CCTV is placed on the front of the building, in immediate reception and on the valuables section

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There is no CCTV in any community and/or private room areas​

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What is the law around this and my personal data?

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We are often asked what the regulations and laws are regarding CCTV

 

​Your safety is our priority and we operate within the legal confinements of CCTV Law and your data​

 

While the 31 days retention period is recommended, following an incident, it may be necessary to keep footage for longer

 

If we have been made aware of an accident or incident, we reserve the right to copy any relevant CCTV footage onto a separate media format. This will be submitted to the relevant authorities should a request be raised. Having CCTV footage protects all as similarly helps to discredit any allegations​​​

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